Worried your next date will bail if he's not into you?
Connecting a search for love, romance, and intimacy with the internet needs to be done alertly, maturely, and cautiously. Jantz, Ph D is the founder of The Center • A Place of HOPE and an internationally recognized best selling author of over 26 books related to mental wellness and holistic recovery treatment. As time went on and I moved out, these issues went away and I found women who weren't bothered by that. I've been in this business for quite sometime and yes, there are ups and downs but, in the end it's totally worth the wait.
It also means every night is “date night.” So the way it used to work—with time to plan what you’d wear, where you’d take her, and so on—has changed. Keep a change of clothes at work, along with some deodorizing wipes and mouthwash, because who knows what’s in store.
“Sometimes women, like men, drop their standards so they can get what they want sooner,” Kerner says.
Speaking of texting, if you don't do it, you might want to learn ... Especially if you are returning to the dating scene after a long haitus. Avoiding any "inebriated" tweeting is also highly recommended!
Smartphones can make your romantic life a little easier and a lot more fun. This may not be a brand "new rule," but it is important enough that it made the cut.