“The researchers realize that their results can be depressing, but they also agree with the many readers who caution against reading too much into the preferences of online daters and speed daters. I married a black man, who I am now (17 years later) divorcing, but the point is that I think the world is FULL of potential, why limit yourself?Yes, these daters clearly discriminate by race and height and looks and other superficial qualities, but they also temper these biases once they get to know one another.” People who are terribly picky in choosing partners online will relax their standards if they spend just three or four minutes talking to someone at a speed dating session.
While I’ve personally dated women across the racial spectrum, I’ve only had a handful of clients who ever expressed preferences for women of other races.
I like their beautiful brown skin, their hearty smile and to be completely honest, I love how their skin smells like vanilla.
It is okay for me if you want to call me a weirdo for saying that black girls smell like vanilla, but it is not okay if you are a white guy who is totally into black girls and because you are convinced that they don’t like you.
And no, just because I am also into Asian girls doesn’t mean that I despise black women.
During the year that I spent studying in the UK I dated two extremely gorgeous dark-skinned women.