If they are still around and pick up on your uncertainty then this may be just the sign they need to up their game and try and win you back.You need to be absolutely sure in your own heart and mind that it is over before you break up with someone.Say what you mean and mean what you say Ending a relationship is never easy and you could be left feeling guilty as well as lonely if you don’t meet a new partner for some time.The combination of these two things can lead you to doubt whether you made the right decision in breaking up with your ex.
When you see him, your heart races as you feverishly rack your brain for something smooth to say when he approaches — if he approaches. You replay the times you've spent together over and over in your head, overanalyzing the details of things he said to you, in hopes of finding a hint that maybe, just maybe, he likes you as much as you like him.The one thing I know about you is that you’re smart. I’d like to think I’m a smart man and that, if we met in real life, we’d be friends. If that comes as a surprise to you, I hate to tell you, but there’s a LOT you need to learn about how men function in relationships. Last week, after our coaching call, she had one of the best dates she can remember.The thing with smart people like you and me is that we’re highly analytical. And this week, she just wants to make sure she doesn’t mess things up.Without even realising it you may be doing, or saying, things that are encouraging their belief that there is still hope.Here are some tips for giving a clear message that they cannot mistake.